Opening your message and not replying, basically ever, makes it blatantly obvious they are simply not interested and dgaf. I also know that I am that person that 95% of the time texts back immediately and not everyone is like me. I know our friendship will not be over by their lack of quick responses.
So what IS worse? I took to IG polls to quiz everyone on it because that always seems like the best method to get a data sample (although my audience is 81% female so these results are perhaps totally not representative…) and 58% said it’s worse to be left on read, and 42% said it’s worse to be left unread.įor clarity, let’s discuss this through a dating/ relationship lens because if my friends leave me on read/ unread, I have no qualms in quadruple texting them again and again until they see my message. Sure, they can see the message in their notifications and probably read it there, but they just don’t open it. To be left unread is when someone just doesn’t even bother to open your message at all. Just to define terms quickly, to be left “on read” means that someone has read the message, you get the blue double tick to prove it, and they just haven’t replied. One of them being the fact that most messaging apps allows you to see when the person you’ve messaged has read it, thus leading to a war raging in our minds of “are they ignoring me?” or “are they just busy?” – depending on how insecure you are. Is it worse to be left on read or left unread?ĭating in the digital age is tough for many reasons. I guess it’s easier to hate on someone there perhaps? But with the huge increase of girls I know throwing out these IGTV styling videos, I was super surprised to see troll comments breeding there too. Trolls 2.0 – I thought the worst trolls thrived exclusively on YouTube as opposed to platforms like Instagram.
It’s weekly catchup time! This week is all about a great debate I had waging in my IG stories which left people relatively torn: is it worse to be left on read, or left UNread? I know which side I err on, so keep reading to find out what I think about it all from both sides.
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